As we've just kicked off into 2008 I would like to wish you all a very happy, healthy and loving New Year. But most of all I hope it will be a successful one for you and the ones close to you, in whatever you are planning to do. I also hope that you've had a successful 2007. At the beginning of the new year I always like to look back on the one that just ended. Looking back on the past year I realized that I've learned quite a few things and would like to share these with you ...
1. Loosing my job taught me a lot. Not only do I know now what I want in a job but even more important I now know what I don't want in a job. I've learned what I should and shouldn't do, which type of company fits my potential best and what kinds of people I'd need to collaborate with to be successful. So ... loosing my job sucked big time but taught me some very valuable and necessary (?) lessons.
2. Being unemployed makes me lazy. I really need the everyday action of work ... I really do. To me, it is like coffee. Ironically I decided to cut back on coffee (I'm even drinking plain water while typing this), but I don't get my energy while being at home. I need people around me, goals and targets to work with and although I have our son Arthur around me all the time and go out with him I just need the action of work.
3. Honesty doesn't always work. I want to be honest and do the 'right' thing. But being just that isn't always the smartest thing to do. I am a pretty straight forward type of guy and like to 'tell it like it is'. That isn't always the smartest thing to do. Although I definitely want other people to 'give it to me straight' what's on their mind - especially if they have a problem with me - I've learned that more than a few people have an issue with my direct way of communicating to them ... even with friends or family. I guess silence really is golden ...
The above also applies to job interviews. Like I said before I know what I want in a job and what not but your future employer does not always want to hear that. They want you to fit the picture. Still, I can't and won't lie about what I want ...
But a new year also makes you want to do things differently and maybe even apply the things you've learned last year. I know I do ... but what am I going to do different in the coming year? Or what are my good intentions? Why am I even writing this down?
Don't you just hate it when you make good intentions and at the end of the year you discover that just didn't kept up to the promise you've made to yourself? Or you did start the year with some really good intentions but after a couple of months you just couldn't be bothered any more. I've had quite a few of those. One of the goals of this blog is that I would like to keep track of things so also my good intentions. I'd like to share mine and keep track off my progress throughout the year. I would like to invite you to send me an e-mail in December 2008 asking me how I did. So ... here goes:
1. Quit smoking. No really. Quit smoking. There's nothing much to say about it. Just do it. Day 1 is looking good so far ...
2. Get a GREAT job again! Applying for a job is not an issue. I think my application letter is really good and I do get invited for interviews. I now just have to get that one job I really like.
3. Spend less time behind the computer. Paradoxically I've just started this blog and want to build a good and useful version of my website this year. But I think it is important as spending less time behind the computer automatically frees up time for a lot of other things.
3. Do more and different things together with Arthur. Sure ... I take Arthur out walking everyday and go to the supermarket every now and then, but I decided that I - while still being unemployed - am going to take him to the swimming pool, into the woods, the (mini) zoo, go to more playgrounds etc.
5. Get the house finished. Although someone once said 'your own house is never finished', I really want to get things done. We moved into our new house in November 2006 but I still need to fit the infamous plinths on the first floor, clear the attic from all boxes and finally fit that one socket to the wall ... the proper way.
6. Do more sports. Well actually ... do sports. I really haven't done anything lately. I used to go out running when I was younger and will do that again this year. I will also get on my mountain bike more often. Even if that means on my own. I'm still undecided on returning to Karate ...
7. I would really like to study again. I haven't made up my mind on which course but (if possible) it will most probably involve a mix commercial, managerial and technical subjects. On a personal level I really want to broaden my knowledge of HTML and CSS and learn how to write proper JavaScript instead of borrowing scripts from various websites. I'm also interested in learning ASP and refresh my knowledge of Microsoft SQL Server. I know this collides with point 4 but I really want to understand how these things work; I use these on my website and some others I'm planning.
8. Experience and learn what the fuss about reading books is all about. Ellen reads books ... I never actually liked reading but a lot of people are really excited about it. Ironically, when I talk to someone about a film I saw they often comment: "I liked the book better". Also, Ellen joined a book reading club last year and she's really enthusiastic about it, so I'm giving reading a shot in 2008.
9. Get my motorcycle driving license. I've wanted to do that for a long time but I've definitely made the decision last year that I will do it in 2008. However, for obvious reasons, I only want to take lessons when I have a job.
10. Stay in touch - more and better - with friends and family. Although this one is on the bottom of the list I've realized that - to me - this is probably the most important thing I want to do this year. I feel that I've neglected this over the last year and really need to 'make up' for lost times. I'd like to have people over for dinner, invite them to a party different from my birthday, go out mountain-biking or play guitar with my 'old' friend again. Sorry guys ... I am definitely going to make that up to you!
There are a dozen other things that I thought of last year that I wanted to do but these are my Top Ten. I'm not saying that I will do all the above in the first week of January but I already started doing a few and on April 1st I want to be able to look myself in the eye with at least half the list checked.
Thank you for reading, hope you liked and please share your feedback.
Harold
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